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In Tip#7, I explained that other believers aren't a good source on the minds or beliefs of nonbelievers. In that same tip, I advised asking the nonbelievers about the nonbelievers.
Let me add on another tip for how you ask.
A common element of my experience with people who are trying to convince me of their faith is being asked a leading question. The claim is often made that this is a genuine attempt to learn. Sometimes, it even is. In either case, the answer is soon followed up by the apologist pouncing upon a perceived flaw in my position, regardless of if the flaw stated is anything close to an accurate understanding of my position.
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Let me add on another tip for how you ask.
A common element of my experience with people who are trying to convince me of their faith is being asked a leading question. The claim is often made that this is a genuine attempt to learn. Sometimes, it even is. In either case, the answer is soon followed up by the apologist pouncing upon a perceived flaw in my position, regardless of if the flaw stated is anything close to an accurate understanding of my position.
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